Showing posts with label visitors. Show all posts
Showing posts with label visitors. Show all posts

Sunday, 25 January 2009

... getting broadband at home

Hej!

Well my broadband connection and modem are finally here and set up (even though the instructions were all in Swedish..I really think there should be English too!) Not all that sure I could have done it if I had been a technophobe, so I guess my IT knowledge has helped in my everyday life too...wow, first time for everything!

So hopefully that means I can start blogging more often, and therefore have shorter posts so I don’t bore the pants off you all! It also means I can blog when I have something to blog about, rather then thinking 'oh, that would be really good to talk about' and then forgetting what it was... which has happened a few times already. I think I must be getting old :(

But anyway...I had a very nice 'afterwork' on Friday. This is a Swedish thing, as you need to plan nights out well in advance here..the Swedish in general aren't so good at the whole spontaneous night out thing. But anyway, there were 6 of us, which isn't bad for 2 days notice here. We didn't do all that much, but went to the Telegrafen, which is pretty cool pub. It has 2 levels...the main bar on the ground floor, and then a basement part too, which is where we ended up as it was really busy upstairs being payday here. So we had a meal and a few beers, and called it a night pretty early really...think I was home for about 2130..which was good as I was still really tired from a lot of late nights and early mornings this week!

I also had a phone call from a friend in the UK asking if he could come and stay at mine on Wednesday night, as he has an interview here on Thursday...of course I said yes, that’s the kinda thing my spare room is for! It will also be nice to catch up, he was one of the ones I didn't get a chance to say goodbye to properly as I was so ill on my last week on UK work.

And another of my friends from the UK is over Monday till Wednesday, as he has some meetings here this week, so I should have 3 nights of getting out and socialising, and then Thursday my TV and all my other stuff should arrive...so I shouldn't get a chance to be too bored this week..hopefully.

What I have learned in the last few days :
Surprise calls and visits from friends are really good for cheering me up
I must be a geek...because having my own broadband connected relieves some of my tension...
I have already made some good friendships here, and I think I am on the way to having more :)

PS. Thank you for leaving the gift, I love how it smells :)

Thursday, 22 January 2009

... settling in and getting a visitor!

Hej!


Yet again I need to apologise for the length of time it has taken between blogs, but I still have no internet at home! But I received a card saying I could pick up my modem now, so hopefully I will be up and working very soon!

So what have I been up to since I last blogged...hmmm, well unless I write yet another stupidly long post I better just give the summary!

I have been building lots of IKEA furniture..in fact I am sure I have actually put together more then I bought, or maybe that’s just the way it makes you feel!
I have been settling into work, trying to get my head around the job and my new team and trying to explain in a nice way what my expectations and goals are. I have noticed that the Swedish work philosophy is very different to the UK one...I cant really pinpoint exactly why right now, but I am sure I will return to this topic soon enough!
I have also been making friends, and strengthening other friendships...my visits to the pubs and bars round Helsingborg are still quite high, which apart from the cost is a very good thing as it saves me being bored!
And that’s another thing...my UK delivery is still not here! I have now been informed that it now has a delivery date of the 29th Jan...a full 18 days after the first delivery date. Not a happy bunny about that!
I have also had my first proper visitor! (as in one that stays at my flat) So this weekend has been my best so far...thank you Sarah! We didn't really do all that much to be fair, went out for dinner a few times, went to a bar or two, had long chats late into the evening...all things that I really miss living alone, and made so much better with great company :)
We also had a really really good laugh together, in fact I have finally found someone who thinks I am very funny...lets see how long that lasts! lol. All I have to say is 'Perchow' ... Sarah is now nearly crying with laughter :)

On another positive note, I am now a Swedish Bank Account holder, and have my very own Personnummer (like a Swedish identity number...necessary for all manner of things here!) which means I have now ordered my broadband, TV package and home phone.
Talking of phones...did you know you need to live here for at least 6 moths before you can get a contract phone?? I guess it is probably the same in most countries, its just something I wasn’t prepared for and so was shocked by it!
Also, a pay as you go phone here is ridiculously expensive! I have bought the cheapest one they had...and it still cost me 600KR (about £55) but I have got a nice pay as you go package, that lets me text home for 29kr (about 2.5 pence) which is way better then the 25 pence it was costing me from my UK phone!

On a very different note, but still about money, anyone that is thinking of coming to Helsingborg from Copenhagen should really look into coming up to Helsingor on the Danish side by train (incidentally the castle here is the one from Hamlet, and worth checking out) and then getting the ferry across to Helsingborg. The time it takes is very similar to coming across the bridge to Malmo and then coming by train up the Swedish side, and yet it cost about half as much. Strange business logic if you ask me. Surely it would make more sense to make them at least close... oh well, yet another great piece of Swedish logic :)

One of my team members is going to Thailand for 4 weeks, so tomorrow we have an 'afterwork' to wish him the best...and to be honest its a great way to get people to come out..they aren't so good at just coming out if there isn't a better reason then 'because you want to'. But I am building up a few friends who I can just drop a line and grab a beer with, so that’s always good.

Other then that I don't have an awful lot planned for this weekend...but I will see how I feel and what invites I get.

What I have learned this fortnight :
It is imperative that you try and get into the system in a new country very quickly...you can’t do much without national identification of some sort
Spending time with friends is one of the most special times you get...make the most of them
Its worth trying different routes to and from places...or ask on of the locals, as things are not always what they seem!

PS. I love wot!